Phase-related things

In the Confucian doctrine, the love is meaning. The pursuit of love for all things moral life as a reflection of Confucian more "benevolence" to express the love of people is a desire to abandon love. Parents love their children as "filial piety", the parents love their children as "Ci", the love between brothers and sisters as "Ti."

Mozi and the development of the love and the Confucian concept of the relative concept of love. Love in Mohist doctrine means for universal love, that is love without arithmetic of all living creatures are holders of such love. Waste and the adverse攻伐for love. Although Mozi's ideas also have a certain influence, but the love of Confucianism is still the majority of Chinese people's love of my study.
Refers to the feelings between the two men feel. The two will establish a good feeling to express their love for each other, such as help each other. But also there are the feelings of all things, is not limited to people.
Fate is the fate of two inter-connected. As the saying goes:thousands of miles to meet do not meet the opposite fate.

Love is commonly used in contemporary China concept, referring to the boy, his childhood occurred when "Love" or the opposite sex of a person "interested" or "infatuated." Love, including juvenile "male and female friends," as well as the children feel Love (with English "crush" the relationship between this concept a bit). This concept of contemporary Chinese culture, society's common view that minors as a result of the pressure of learning should not be in love, or of their most promising future and may well do harm. A very important reason is the great contemporary China's education system competitive. Newspapers and other media also reported this phenomenon Love danger to students and parents worried.

Love of education

Intelligence quotient IQ, emotional quotient EQ, financial quotient FQ, Adversity Quotient AQ, may be to guide and improve the people, love is the quotient. Unfortunately, very few parents have the right to educate their children in schools to deal with the face of the attitude of love or appointments, any temporary or after the children from their peers in the media for help.
Near the beginning of the decade was a guide book to improve the love quotient. If the guidelines dating love to identify with the degree and variety of potential problems; correct progress, the right attitude, and so on Raiders law.
There are half a half of education and entertainment to computer games and the pursuit of game.
Some low-IQ people who love a lost love (romance) For the purposes of seeking the death or injury to others. If the allocation of time and energy of life in these incidents, we can reduce the tragedy and help to love, for example:
Personal grooming, health knowledge, the wisdom of the cause of entertainment, hobbies love, partner Jingsiyu relatives to contribute to the community reflect on faith, belief, religion
Cultural perspectives should be devoted love.

Love the stage

Fisher love proposed three main types of state: lust, attract, dependent. Love usually start by the passions, the main focus while ignoring other elements of passion. This stage the most basic driving force is a basic sexual instinct, such as appearance, smell and other similar factors are a major factor in selecting partners. However, with the passage of time, other elements may be increased and decreased by passion, but it is different Everyone. In attracting stage, people will focus on its impact on the other side, at a time when loyalty is most important.
Similarly, when a person loved a long time, and its will and its partners developed a dependency relationship. According to modern scientific explanation for love, from dependency to attract to the transfer of three months time. Subsequent disappearance of passion, love will shift from loving affection, or by romantic love towards a favorable impression.

Love Style

Susan and Clyde in accordance with the theory of John Lee has developed a love attitude indicators, known as the love style. It will be divided into six basic types of relationships: (1) sexual love - based on each other's appearance and have love. (2) Game of Love - Love is like the game, full of fun, do not usually attach importance to the commitment and focus on conquering the other side. (3) of friendship and love - the slow development of hospitable love, based on mutual respect and friendly. (4) the love of reality - the tendency to select can help their friends, so that they can benefit from this. (5), dependent love - the love of heavy emotional, unstable and romantic love by the recession by, full of jealousy and disputes. (6) altruistic love - totally selfless love, can not hesitate to harm themselves or give up anything. importance. Modern love like this by putting the word "real" characters Dease that two Chinese men will gradually tend to love the game of love and attachment, on the contrary a woman will gradually tend to love and friendship and love of reality. The relationship between the two have a similar, if love can be maintained for a long time more.

Fraternity and love

Traditional psychological point of view that love is love and love from the composition. Love is a strong desire, usually accompanied with the physiological aroused (shortness of breath, rapid heart beat, such as falling in love). Fraternity is close caused by acts of love and feeling, but not accompanied with the physiological aroused.

Scientific model

Physiology on Love is the desire of the performance of mammals, such as hunger or thirst. Love is in social psychology and cultural performance. Its both may be true, love is certainly by hormones (such as oxytocin) and outside the hormone effects, but at the same time the idea of people's love and behavior are also subject to its belief in the impact of love.

The classification of love

Love can be divided into the couple's love, friends, love, love of blood, that is, love, friendship, affection. We complain bitterly that no one loves himself, others remind us to be a matter of fact have a partner who loves us, we also blame the other side is not sufficient love, or do not feel the happiness of being loved, from the need to love is still a long way far. In short, no matter whether there is love around, mind always think those are not enough, we should have more more. Most of the issues of love, it is ironic that the reality is this: instead of love is not enough, but too many of our greed, and even re-strong love can not satisfy our desire. Love, like other desires, once become sexual, they will lack Forever, forever regret Forever better than others. In fact, the problem is we do not deep enough love, love did not spend enough time. Because not enough self-love, so to divert people's attention, and causes of the responsibility onto others. Do not feel that love is to us because other people are not enough, in fact, is that we lost the capacity to accept more than a lot of love. Poor is not love, but our own. To enhance the feeling of love, the need to give themselves a profound experience of love, give ourselves a bit more high-quality love. That does not mean that much to give their own entertainment or material to meet achievable. After all, love is soul food, must open up their own minds can be. We all know that no amount of wealth can buy, at best, to accompany, but can not buy true love, not the warmth of the people. Want more love, to warm their heart, can do things their own heart. Unconditional for people who need help paying love, such as learning to forgive, learning for a better tomorrow. These are able to simply let them experience the warmth of heart, not attached to the material and return. You willing to take the first step to love, love becomes immediately, love will no longer be missing.

Love can also be acquired culture

Love can also be acquired culture, through education and training people to love the complex, education and our future generations, to love the motherland and the people. Kangxi's interpreted as: the fat-jen also.sound from the heart. Also pro also, TU also, Hui also, pity it, pet it, good music, but we also hesitate, Mu also hidden also. Love, the offer of the known. Also Sik said in grant love. Also surname. Love Song Cishi Shanghai. Ukraine also leaves the stomach cutting, abusive tone. Heart even felt the love, ya do not say that. World cowhouse Turbidimetry Mo I know, people can not come. Death must not be allowed to know, is willing not to love Come. World in chaos, with broken jade. Daren Kim Shin, waste has been kept love. Tu Tusearching stare,Li-li had been right. Silk Road tamper sad, moreover it is where the love.

The definition of love

The definition of love may be the best initiatives to really deal with a life or objects (such as people, goods, God), their overall pleasure. In short, the love that is, take the initiative to the overall pleasure. Love can be born, it can be regarded as characteristic of human nature, in other words, love is as a person must have one of the essence. While the nations of the world cultural differences between the possibility of a universal definition of love Daoming difficult, but not impossible to set up ( Wolfgang assumptions). Love can include the soul or spiritual love, for love of law and organizations, for their love, the love of food, money, love, love of learning, the love of power, On the reputation of love, the love of others, few. Accepted by different people for their love has a different emphasis. Love is essentially an abstract concept, you can make it difficult to experience language.

Love's explanation

Love of the word in Chinese there are many explanations given by some things to meet (such as "I love to eat these foods") to in order to love something and are willing to die (such as patriotism, dual combination). Can be used to describe the love of their strong feelings, emotions or emotional state. In daily life, and its usually refers to interpersonal love. Probably because the first of its emotional, so love is the eternal theme of aesthetics. Love sometimes been described as obsessive-compulsive disorder.